Find your life sherpa.

How to get a free #1 fan, life coach, and career shortcut.

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Mentors save you time because they’ve done exactly what you’re about to do. They help you the way a coach or a (friendly) older sibling does.

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They tell you about all their terrible life choices—from chats about careers and employers to stories about eating ice cream for lunch every day without realizing they’re lactose intolerant—they put you in touch with other smart people, and they vouch for you. Growth. Emotional support. Free food.

Let’s find you a fucking sherpa.

I want to learn from people with cool jobs 💖
I want to do research 🔬
I'm not really sure if I can do this 🧸

Click on a category!

If your high school has a lot of successful grads, try googling:

site:linkedin.com “[your high school name]” “[a topic you’re vaguely interested in]”

The results will be people who use LinkedIn, a job-finding site, who went to your high school. Reach out to them! You already have something in common!

Even if you don't see anyone, you can ask your teachers if they keep in touch with any cool former students.

Write an amazing one-sentence self-pitch

Allison is a sophomore in college. She’s worked at a lab for a year now, but doesn’t feel like she’s achieved much. She hasn’t published any papers or done a lot of anything. But she loves the lab work and commits a lot of time for it. Here’s her one sentence pitch:

Allison is a UC Berkeley sophomore with 300 hours in an imaging systems lab; 50 hours in 1:1 conversation with biomed PIs, professors, and founders; and 100+ iterations of nanoparticle synthesis.

She focused on what she’s done the most of, and readers will realize that’s a lot of hours for a sophomore.

For cool phrases, look at the back of books and steal them from reviewers talking about the author. That’s where Allison got the idea for another sentence about her, part of a longer bio she uses in intro/networking emails: “When energy levels are low, she is a one-woman defibrillator."

Say you want to do cancer research. Even if you've only taken one chemistry class, phrase it like:

I'm an 11th grader interested in cancer research. In my chemistry class, I stay late to ask my teacher questions and help clean up.

Or do a little math and say something like...

I'm an 11th grader interested in cancer research with 300 hours invested in learning chemistry and biology, 50 hours practicing experimental design in class activites, and (not that it's relevant) a really cute dog.

A good mentor lets you learn for yourself, guiding you, but not telling you what to do. They answer questions and give good advice, they do not do your homework.

If you’re nervous about your email, send it to us first to proofread: ben@fix.school

If you’re passionate about education, I’ll mentor you: ben@fix.school, use the same strategies to pitch me :)

FAQ

I can't find their email
  1. Try googling “[person’s name] email” and poke around.
  2. If you get results from a site like Apollo or Rocketreach, it’s fine to make a free account there to see emails–those sites are legit.
  3. If they work at a company, find someone’s email at the company: all emails will be in the same format, like firstinitial.lastname@company.com.
I don't know what careers I'm interested in

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